A simple rule of thumb is that, by their second birthday, children should be speaking in some two word sentences. This may be things like “mummy gone”. Health visitors know to refer children to speech and language therapists at the age of two if this is not happening. If you feel that your child falls into this group, then you need to speak to your health visitor or GP. Have a look at http://www.talkingpoint.org.uk which is a site brimful of information on speech and language development for parents, health visitors and other health professionals. The site houses an online quiz that you can do to see whether your child is meeting their language development milestones.
A child not sleeping as early/late/long/peacefully as his or her parents expect is one of the most common topics of conversation in my consultations – even if that was not the main reason for making the appointment! If the child doesn’t sleep well, neither does the parent and after a while that gets everyone down.
One of my registrars has written a helpful leaflet on this topic which neatly summarises most of what I say in these situations – and what I tried to do (with varying degrees of success) when my own children were younger. It is available here.
I spend much of my working time seeing unwell children in a busy A and E department. Parents are always keen to tell me how high their child’s temperature is but I am far more interested in the child’s heart rate. Once they are over 6 months old, temperature is of no use at all as a marker of how sick the child is. Both heart rate and respiratory rate are much more important. When my own children are unwell I take their heart rates and don’t bother with the thermometer that my non-medical husband bought at some point and is now lost I think. Heart rate went into the 2013 National Institute of Health and Clinical Excellence guideline on the assessement of children under 5 with a fever but no-one seems to have thought to tell the nation’s parents how important it is. So click here for my guide to how to measure your child’s heart rate and respiratory rate. Do leave comments below.
Please note that, since its launch in February 2013, I am now answering FAQs on children’s health at the parenting lifestyle website called www.offspringthing.com. Please try there for any topics you can not find here.
Many infants will be growing out of their cows milk protein allergy (CMPA) towards the end of their first year. Weaning starts at 4-6 months and there are some very well written guides to first tastes and weaning stages at http://www.lnds.nhs.uk/_HealthProfessionals-LifestyleDietaryManagementResources-NutritionforInfantsandChildren.aspx but nothing I could find from dieticians on weaning your dairy intolerant baby!
Take a look at this excellent guide to dairy free weaning from the makers of one of the extensively hydrolysed formulas used for babies with cows’ milk protein allergy: http://www.allergyuk.org/downloads/news-and-media/cows-milk-protein-resources/Aptamil_Recipe_Booklet.pdf
“Neocate Spoon” came on the market in 2011. It is a first weaning food for very cows’ milk protein intolerant infants who may have been on an amino acid formula for the first few months of life. Sachets of it are available on prescription (or over the counter although the manufacturers would prefer that it is used under the auspices of a paediatrician or paediatric dietician). You mix a sachet with 60mls of water and give it to your baby as it is or mixed with other weaning foods such as pureed vegetables. The dose is 1-2 sachets per day depending on stage of weaning. More product information at http://nutricia.co.uk/files/uploads/documents/Neo_Spoon_LP_2pp1.pdf
Dairy free infants do run the risk of dropping their calcium levels and should ideally be under a paediatric dietician if they are going to be dairy free for longer than a few weeks. Soya infant formula milk and yoghurts can be used from 6 months but some children with CMPA (probably less than we used to think) are also allergic to soya so keep an eye out for any return of the symptoms.
More and more people are moving away from the heavy meat diets we were used to as children ourselves but lots of us worry about ensuring adequate nutrients when we do that - for ourselves as well as for our babies and children. Millions of people in the world have been vegetarian for generations so all we really need is a bit of education and information.
I can not do better than the paediatric dieticians in Leicester, UK who have produced some truly excellent diet sheets for parents on lots of different aspects of feeding your children. Take a look at http://www.lnds.nhs.uk/Library/FeedingtheVegetarianBabyA4Aug10.pdf.
The full list of their downloadable sheets is at http://www.lnds.nhs.uk/_HealthProfessionals-LifestyleDietaryManagementResources-NutritionforInfantsandChildren.aspx
5% of children develop stammering (synonym: stuttering) and 80% grow out of it. It tends to come on around the age of 3 or 4 on the background of normal language development up until that point. It seems that it occurs at the time that language acquisition becomes more complex.
Stammering is known by Speech and Language (SLT) therapists as “dysfluency” and there should be a dysfluency service in your region that your GP or paediatrician can refer you to. My local SLT service tells me that outcomes are better if the child is seen by them within a year of the onset of the stammer. They are keen on a parent led programme called the Lidcombe programme. Click on the link in the name to read more about it. Stammering persists into adulthood in about 1 in every 5 cases.
You may find the following links helpful:
The Michael Palin Centre for Stammering Children in Islington runs intensive courses in school holidays for older children. Tel 02033168100 www.stammeringcentre.org.
The British Stammering Association (http://www.stammering.org/) has a wealth of information, in many languages, for professionals, parents and children on its website. It also has a phone helpline staffed by people who stammer. Tel 0845 603 2001/0208 8806590
The Fluency Trust (http://www.thefluencytrust.org.uk) provides residential courses in activity centres for children older than 10 years with dysfluency.
City University, London, provides intensive week long courses in school holidays for those over 8 years. Contact Bethan Lewis, tel 0207 040 8288 (http://www.city.ac.uk/health/public-clinics/compass-centre/stammering-clinic/instensive-courses-for-people-who-stammer)
Much of the time we don’t know is the honest answer. There are a number of diagnoses that your GP or paediatrician will try to rule out by asking you and your child lots of questions about the nature of the pain and any associated symptoms like change in bowel habit. Most children do not need blood tests or other investigations but many get them anyway. We are seeing more coeliac disease (sensitivity to gluten which is a protein found in wheat) now that we are looking harder for it but in the majority of cases, if the history is not worrying, any tests done are normal.
We term the following triad of symptoms, functional abdominal pain:
• pain that waxes and wanes
• pain that occurs with three episodes within a three-month period of time
• pain which is severe enough to affect a child’s activities (eg. school attendance)
Functional abdominal pain is difficult to manage and we know that if parents appreciate the interplay between emotional and physical health, play down the pain and address any underlying fears or worries their child may have, recovery will be faster. It is not that the child is putting it on; their brains are very good at feeling emotional pain as physical pain, partly to protect themselves and partly because they can not as yet make sense of psychological hurt. Having a tummy ache makes more sense.
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/welcome/commonproblems/abdominal_pain.html is a sensible, reassuring American patient information leaflet which I would recommend to you.
If his eyes are very red with copious amounts of pus coming from them and he is less than a month old you should seek medical advice urgently.
The majority of babies however just have a blocked duct which does not require antibiotics. Your midwife or health visitor should be able to show you how to clean your baby’s eyes.
The naso-lacrimal duct usually canalises around about 36 weeks gestation but 20% of newborns show signs that one or both are blocked. Eyes start watering within 6 weeks of birth, they get sticky eyes and occasional conjunctivitis which is when the whites of the eyes go red. We would usually take a swab and treat with antibiotic eye ointments only if the eyes are red.
You should massage the sac between the corner of the eye and the nose (see diagram above) 6 times per day and clean with cool boiled water. 90 – 96% of cases resolve by one year of age. Your GP can refer your baby to a paediatric ophthalmologist if he is one of the 4% who still has sticky eyes at a year of age.
There is a good parent information leaflet on this topic here.
Take a look at this graph that shows you that children tend to have slightly bowed legs (“varus” in medical terminology) when they start to walk which should straighten up around the age of 2 and may then “overshoot” into knock-knees (“valgus”) for a couple of years which then settle down into whatever sort of position is common in their family by about 8 years.
Children who walk early (before their first birthday) may have bowing of their legs up to the slightly later age of 3 but you should seek medical advice if your child’s leg bowing goes on longer than that or if only one side is affected or if their legs are painful. There is some nice parent information on common childhood orthopaedic problems at http://kidshealth.org/parent/medical/bones/common_ortho.html.
Many children in north London are vitamin D deficient and not taking the daily multivitamins that the Department of Health advises they should. Severe vitamin D deficiency can lead to rickets in the under 3s which needs high doses of vitamin D under the care of a doctor to rectify as it is not only the bones that are affected when things get this severe. Take your child to see your doctor if their wrists and knees are swollen, they are not growing properly, seem to be reluctant to walk, have bow-legs and seem generally miserable. There is good parent information on rickets at http://www.patient.co.uk/health/Rickets.htm.